The Seven Habits

One of my old advertising bosses materialized a few weeks ago. He's living in Orlando and got a little uppity after the Magic won A game in the NBA championships against my Lakers. He emailed to see how I was doing and to strike up a little competitive banter. Perhaps a wager or two was placed on the series.

Besides being thankful for his generous donation to the Coe college fund, I was reminded of a piece of paper that he gave me when I first started working for him in Atlanta. It's titled "The Seven Habits" and is a summary of the seven habits of highly effective people, a book written by Stephen Covey. I still have that same piece of paper, yellowed and ripped, taped to my desk today.

Here are the 7 habits:

1) Be pro-active. You are responsible for your life. Decide what you should do and get on with it.
2) Begin with the end in mind. Think of how you want to be remembered at your funeral. Use this as a basis for your everyday behavior.
3) Put first things first. Devote more time to what's important but not necessarily urgent.
4) Think win-win. Have an abundance mentality. Seek solutions that benefit all parties.
5) Seek first to understand, then to be understood. Don't dive into a conversation. Listen until you truly understand the other person.
6) Synergize. Find ways to cooperate with everyone. Value the differences between people.
7. Sharpen the saw. Continually exercise and renew four elements of your self: physical, mental, emotional-social and spiritual.

Thanks Jack for sharing these habits with me and for all of the other lessons I learned from you. To everyone else, go back and re-read these 7 tips again. I hope they have an impact on both your professional and personal life.